I will answer this quote with another, from the Buddha. I came across this yesterday in the wonderful book by Robert and Dina Van Arsdale called "The Way of the Beloved."
"If it is hurtful and untrue, don't say it. If it is helpful and untrue, don't say it. If it hurtful and true, don't say it. If it is helpful and true, choose the right time."
pollinatrix - thank you for offering this great quote. i wonder how many times we jump too quickly with our words and forget to "choose the right time."
thanks, tink, sue & kel!!
barbara - "a peaceful New Year" - i like that so much more than "happy" which rings shallow more often than not.
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2011 Reading List
The Accidental Tourist - Anne Tyler
Hunger Games - Suzanne Collins
Heaven is for Real - Todd Burpo
Then Again - Diane Keaton
The Greater Journey - David McCullough
Maine - J. Courtney Sullivan
Expecting Adam - Martha Beck
What Alice Forgot - Liane Moriarty
The Saint - Oliver Brody
Just One Thing - Rick Hanson*
The Getaway Car: A Practical Memoir about Writing - Ann Patchett
Paris, Paris: Journey into the City of Light - David Downie*
The Gifts of Imperfection - Brene Brown
What I Wish for You - Patti Digh
French Lessons: A Novel - Ellen Sussman
Cupidity - Caroline Goode
Language of Love - Deborah Reber
Follow Your North Star - Martha Beck
State of Wonder - Ann Patchett
The War of Art - Steve Pressfield
The Astonishing Power of Emotions - Esther & Jerry Hicks
Self-Coaching 101 - Brooke Castillo
Dolphin - Story of a Dreamer - Sergio F. Bambaren
Stories I Only Tell My Friends - Rob Lowe
The Paris Wife - Paula McClain
Stroke of Insight - Jill Bolte Taylor
Leaving the Saints - Martha Beck
Heaven - Lisa Miller
The Four Day Win - Martha Beck*
Hush - Kate White
Healing Trauma - Peter Levine
Loving What Is - Byron Katie
Annabel - Kathleen Winter
Make Miracles in Forty Days - Melody Beattie
Outlander - Diana Gabaldon
Transformational Speaking - Gail Larsen
12 Steps to a Compassionate Life - Karen Armstrong
The Joy Diet - Martha Beck
Finding Your Own North Star - Martha Beck
* in process
2010 Reading List
The Joy Diet - Martha Beck
Outlander - Diana Gabaldon
Steering by Starlight - Martha Beck
Walking the Bible - Bruce Feiler*
Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest - Stieg Larsson
Girl Who Played with Fire - Stieg Larsson
Girl with the Dragon Tattoo - Stieg Larsson
An Altar in the World - Barbara Brown Taylor
Traveling with Pomegranates - Sue Monk Kidd & Ann Taylor Kidd
Wisdom of the Desert - Thomas Merton*
The Help - Kathryn Stockett
Stealing Horses - Per Pettersen
Hemlock at Vespers - Peter Tremayne
God is not One - Stephen Prothero
water, wind, earth & fire - Christine V. Paintner
Awakening the Creative Spirit - CV Paintner & B Beckman
6 comments:
I will answer this quote with another, from the Buddha. I came across this yesterday in the wonderful book by Robert and Dina Van Arsdale called "The Way of the Beloved."
"If it is hurtful and untrue, don't say it.
If it is helpful and untrue, don't say it.
If it hurtful and true, don't say it.
If it is helpful and true, choose the right time."
How beautiful and true.
Thanks for that, Lucy. Lovely.
knowing more
yet saying less
yes!
Amen. And a peaceful New Year to you and all those you love!
pollinatrix - thank you for offering this great quote. i wonder how many times we jump too quickly with our words and forget to "choose the right time."
thanks, tink, sue & kel!!
barbara - "a peaceful New Year" - i like that so much more than "happy" which rings shallow more often than not.
blessings to each and all!!!
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